I wanted to try some video, because it scares me to death. I see all my faults and flaws. It gives me the opportunity to be hyper-critical. But it also is a chance to be more daring than I usually…

What happens when your To Do list is filled with so many tasks that it begins to overwhelm you?  I just got back from a three day trip and I’m suddenly faced with SO many things that must be done,…

   Today, I honor my resistance and I also know that I can not give in. Today I know that I am fighting against my own barriers and demons. On the other side of the resistance fence I see the…

   Can you see beyond who and what your boundaries are today? It’s easy to get so caught up in the day-to-day conditions of our lives that we forget to imagine.  This weekend was a great reminder of this for me. …

Can you receive?  Until the last year, I wasn’t very good at it…at all!  If someone asked me what I needed, I would say, “nothing”.  If I was paid a compliment, I would deflect it.  Slowly, that is all turning…

Yesterday I read a quote by RuPaul that got me thinking.  He said, “We’re born naked, and the rest is drag.”  In a drag show, men dress up as women and perform.  They don’t just dress up, they go ALL…

Over two years ago I started a free Blogspot, “It’s Not About Can’t”.  I hadn’t defined it much.  I knew my intention, I just didn’t know how to talk to people about it.  Clearly, it went nowhere. So I haven’t…

I was thinking about my life as if it was spread out across some kind of map, or blue print.  The dots connected.  The path highlighted.  Like it was framed as a step-by-step, sequential set of actions and activities.  Hell…

  I learned something about myself.  I’m not who I kept imagining myself to be.  I should have realized it, but I didn’t. I kept holding up some really blurry picture of what this life of mine should look like.…

So…I have a great job!  I have a job, that affords me a lot of opportunities.  I have a job that would be a dream for a lot of people.  I am growing to hate my job!  So, let me…